Wow, hello everyone I didn't expect to come back to reddit and have this much support. I didn't really plan to update at all I just wanted to put what had happened out there and hopefully get some advice. After I wrote down all that happened, I closed my computer and kind of fell into a depression, after I posted, it hit me like a train. To the ones who think it's fake, I wish I was this creative I'd write books instead of working a 9-5. I'll try to reply more on this post I just logged back on, and it was honestly too much to try and reply to every comment just know I read through most of them, and I truly appreciate everyone's inputs both negative and positive.

So, the day after I posted I tried to get into contact with my mother but none of my calls were connecting. I wanted to see if she would get lunch with me, and I'd tell her everything. After about a dozen tries, I decided to get into my car and go to my mother's house she needed to know what happened as soon as possible even if talking about was going to make it hurt all over again. During the drive I thought about what I would say and how I would say it that made me start to panic I had to pull over twice to throw up, it's not every day you have to tell your mom that her husband is screwing your fiancé.

I pulled into the driveway and sat in my car for a moment to calm down and gather my thoughts. I was in my car for a few minutes when my mother threw her front door open, so I stepped out of my car. She started cursing at me saying how dare I come to her home after I hit my father for trying to break up a fight between L and I. She called me every name in the book and called me an abuser, she told me I needed to leave since L isn't ready to forgive me yet and that if she's smart she hopefully never will. Yes, apparently my father took L to my family's home and told my mom that L and I argued and when my father tried to spot it, I hit him. She continued on for a while until I finally snapped and said "really mom because your husband is f***ing my fiancé that's why I hit him and if you can't take my word for it, I have a video I'll send it to you but because my own mother can talk to me like this don't expect to see me again I don't want to hear your apology when you finally figure out that your just as shit of a mom as my piece of shit father."

Her face dropped she looked like what I must have looked like when I first walked into my apartment and caught them. I pulled out my phone and sent her the video, my mom took hers out and turned it on, she pulled up the video and watched up until the part where I turn on the light. She then put her phone down, she looked up at me, but I turned and went into my car. I backed out of her driveway, I looked at her before I took off and she was in tears. My heart felt for her but too much was said during that fight for me to pull back in and forgive her.

When I got home, I started clearing everything out of my apartment that had to do with L or my family. I boxed all of L's things up and put them next to the front door, legally this has been her place of residence so I can't technically kick her out. Her name isn't on the lease also she's the type of person who shy's away from conflict and if she returns other than to pick her things up there will be plenty of conflict. Anything that had to do with my parents I boxed up and put into storage, like I said in my first post we were a very close family, but I've never had a problem cutting toxic people out of my life. I texted L's parents and told them calling off the engagement and told them she's been cheating on me. I thanked them for everything they've done for me, our relationship was still building but they were kind and supportive of me, so this just added more hurt to the mix. I finished by asking if they would come pick up all of her belongings. I haven't gotten a response from them yet but I'm hoping they come grab her things, so L doesn't have a reason to come back here.