So, my brother-in-law arranged the meeting with my wife. I told them not to bring anyone other than her father and my father. First we had a discussion where she cannot talk about the past (involves emotional and maybe physical cheating, destroyed evidence and then blamed me for being mentally ill), but I said if that's the case, bring that male colleague with whom she cheated if she is clean.

Went around circles where she used all the manipulation techniques which she did last decade, but I was stuck to my goal: bring him if you did nothing wrong.

Then her father and my father started talking, once again, constantly interruptions, shouting, crying, etc. Tried to give a word to his dad, but the way he was shouting and pushing, I feared something bad might happen. Told them that they can hold my children hostage and I'll tell everything once my son gets to be 18. And then calmly came out with my dad.

I know it sounds simple, just move on. But I can't allow a woman and her family who use intimidation techniques to bury the betrayal she did and also use my kids as hostage. Such mothers can do anything even if we try to give her mutual, alimony, child support to either bar the kids from seeing their dads and poison them.

Even her brother-in-law is telling let's not go to court and settle amicably because they know while I can't legally prove her cheating, her family would know enough. My kids fate is written to be with such a mother without the care of their dads, but unfortunately I can't change it due to our laws.

Breaking my promise not to rant because this is a major development and I'm happy I showed her family I won't budge at any threats.