I (22F) recently moved to a new city and made new friends. My closest friend here, Sam, introduced me to her friend Sarah (29F) (fake names).

Sarah is super nice and I've hung out with her several times for the past month. I think she's super cool and definitely thought we'd become good friends.

She is married to John (29M). I've talked to John a few times and thought he was super cool too.

I thought they were a cool young couple who had their shit together and they were nice and welcoming. I thought like I could look up to them and learn from them. They have a house and a business.

One night, a group of their friends and me and Sam end up back at Sarah and John's place after a bar. We had been smoking weed and drinking. I was only a little high. It's like 1 am and we are watching a movie. Sarah goes upstairs to bed and then everyone else falls asleep. John whispers to me if I want to go have fun with him and Sarah upstairs. I say haha what.. no. He says cmon. I say no. And he leads me to another room, another TV room, where I figured I could sleep, so I lay on the couch to sleep, but then he gets on top of me and starts kissing me. I don't move. My head was racing bc I wanted to be friends with them and I liked him and his wife, but I didn't want to make him upset. And then he starts trying to take my pants off but I hold them and say don't. But he is stronger and gets them off. He starts touching me and I say no. I tried pushing his hand. And eventually I just put my hands over my eyes and just laid there.

And then he left and then I got up and woke my friend up and told her we should leave. I told my friend what happened the next morning and she was super supportive. But we don't know what to do and don't know what's going to happen or what I should do. Should I tell Sarah? Should I talk to John? I still want to be friends with them. I think it was just a mistake, but I assume this is a big deal.. I don't know what to do and am looking for advice. I know a lot of people will say it's "rape", but it wasn't that bad and I feel fine. I just don't want there to be drama or problems............... Please give me advice or a new perspective.