Unfortunately I can’t stop thinking about this. I’m here to vent honestly. I’m a 27 female. I went to my husbands moms surprise birthday party at hotshots bar and grill (another version of hooters) all of his family is there that I really love! And I know they love me too.

I had one beer and I was ready for a cocktail, as I was leaving the party room to go to the bar, my uncles husband stopped me and I said “I’m just ready to go get myself a cocktail!” And he said “well if you want a cocktail, you’re gonna have to have more boob than that!”…

I’m not sure if this was a joke based on the waitresses showing off their big boobs (good for them! No shaming here) or if he was literally trying to just making a joke about how small chested I am to make me feel shitty. I’m a waaaay too nice of a person and I don’t have much of a back bone and said “yep, well this is what I was born with” and walked away and immediately began crying..

and instead of going to the bar, I went into the bathroom to cry and call my husband. I told him what had happened and he wasn’t sure what to really do about it besides say he was sorry and wasn’t sure why he said it to me. This man could be my dad. I’m close with his daughter (my husband cousin) who is only a couple years younger than me and has good size boobs.

The fact that I could be this man’s daughter and he’s making jokes about how small my chest is makes me sick. He was one of my favorites on my husbands side of the family, but I found myself avoiding him all night at this party. I know I need to embrace my small boobs, and I know I shouldn’t cry about it, but trying to accept them have been so hard for me for YEARS. And then to have an older man comment on them just hit me at the core. I’m sensitive I know. And the amount of comebacks I was coming up with AFTER the fact that it happened were insane. I just feel he has no business commenting on that part of my body.

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